Collage of Crafts and Jewellery

Name my craft store

I have a growing collection of crafts I’ve created and a growing collection of items to use for making faebulous things and I really need a craft store to sell them. I’ve been researching for a while, and a marketing guru advised that it would be better to have a separate social media account for […]

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Blogging – Here We Go Again

I haven’t been so active on here and blogging of late. I tried Patreon and most of my updates and fresh content where there, but alas, it did not work out quite as I had hoped. So, I shall be back here I think, at least for the time being. The future may see me […]

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Jai Lefay introduction

Return of the Jai

I always liked my name being shortened to the sound of that first letter. The problem was that I never really felt like Jay or Jaye fit me. I love Ys in names until the cows come home but that was not me. Jae was not me either. Then I came across Jai and it […]

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Writing Spaces – Where do you write?

Writing Spaces – We all have them I was reading a post by ‘Practical Magic’ author, Alice Hoffman about where her writing spaces and the evolution of that as technology unchained her from a desk, and I thought about where I write. I write everywhere, I always have. But I do find sometimes I miss […]

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The Reading Me-Date

This blog post you are reading about reading is late. I would apologise but it’s not really something I need to be sorry for. You see, I had my bad luck three which came in injuries. I spent nearly a week unable to sit at my computer without pain. Sleep and I were not friends. […]

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Wiccad Within Returns

The Return of Wiccad Within. Over a year ago I started Wiccad Within to separate out my writing posts from my motivational, spiritual and uplifting ones. It soon fell over because I got annoyed with how Facebook was treating pages. I decided that it was easier to put all my effort into one page. But, […]

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Helping people transform

Recently I did another motivational course. I walked away from it a little letdown. This course lacked the interaction that I feel is so important for helping people change their lives. It’s all very well to talk at people and give advice but when one does not actually respond their feedback does not really give […]

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Napier waterfront

Nature is a gift

Yay Nature. Nature is a gift, one that sadly is not what it used to be in some places and one that not everyone can enjoy. Now, this isn’t a piece on environmentalism, I am not well versed enough to stand on that box. Plus, a quick search on the interwebs will take you to […]

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The Art of the Unplug

Unplug your life Do you ever have that feeling where you know what you need to do but you also have excuses for not doing it? That has been me for a number of days. It’s possible the feeling started before that, but it was in the last week that it became strongest. On Tuesday […]

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Putting Me First at a Creepy Cabaret

Putting ‘Me’ first is hard. Many of us are conditioned to put ourselves last; especially as women. We shouldn’t be doing that, we should be putting me first! We need to learn to take the time to focus on ourselves and our personal journey. Sometimes it’s hard when you have already had a long and […]

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